What is Veerya in Tantra? Semen, shukranu or lifeforce? Then what is a woman?
Veerya is power it’s the transcendental ability to derive energy from cosmos. If vitality condenses as Semen, then for a woman vitality manifests as three states Jagrat, Swapna and Shushupti (Tripura Sundari) in the form of Ojas, artava, harmones of creativity. A man is power defined by his shakti . A man is all about indulgence and his expression through it, while a female loses her vitality through chaos, overstimulation, instability and stress. This is not about disparity, this is about discipline vs dissipation.
Veerya is not about masculinity or superiority, it’s a responsibility of “being a man” . Shakti is not hidden, it is not about subtleness. Shakti is structured femineity that guides the man’s masculinity towards responsibility.
When men brag about retention, they can’t relate to vitality for them it’s just about what they create in the bed, not a carried responsibility, as for a woman she can create and structure everything in a male. She is an expression that circulates vitality inwards- which is spirituality and that same force is retained by a man as an expression to circulate vitality outward/outside. Different mechanics of force together built power